What if we opened up Sidekicks to include others, perhaps Military spouses, or those married to Firefighters and Police officers? Recent news has shown plenty of politicians' wives who have to smile for the cameras while trying hard not to go postal on their cheating, lying rat of a husband. Bet they could use some support.
Can't say that I would be very keen. Spice of many different occupations (think farmers, diplomats, doctors) have similar problems to clergy spice, but clergy spice have the unique situation of being expected to be pi little goodie two shoes without having been called, trained or rewarded.
Given the situation that you are in with no more support from the church, it might be worth considering a new group perhaps?