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Here I am, feeling bummed again. This afternoon I got a call from our associate pastor. She wanted to assure me that she knew I was a good woman and that what had happened was in no way my fault.
Uh oh. WHAT was not my fault?
It took a while, but after a long story and many questions I figured out that… Continue
Created by Starr Luteri-Hicks Nov 3, 2009 at 6:36pm. Last updated by Starr Luteri-Hicks Nov 4.
Has anyone ever been so offended by something you've done or said that they left the church? How did you respond? What would you suggest to another clergy spouse in this situation?
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Dear Nonni Know-It-All,
I am quite distressed at the hateful tone of political discourse in our country of late. It seems that every talk radio program and television commentary is filled with spiteful attacks of each side against the other. In our congregation, it seems that even the most innocent of conversations turns into a nasty partisan squabble. When our Sisters’ Sewing and Serving Circle unraveled over whether using recycled bulletins supported the liberal secular agenda, I just fell apart. What can I do to find some peace when everything I hear and see is so upsetting?
Distraught in Daytona
My Dear Distraught,
The first thing you must do may be very difficult, but with the Lord’s help, Nonni is confident you will find the strength to do what must be done: turn off both the radio and the television. Then, when confronted by disturbing issues of whatever sort by congregational members, simply reply, “Let’s pray about that.” Then take the person’s hand and do so, right there and then. Rest assured that very soon no one will bring up any disturbing issues in your presence.
Email your heartaches and deep spiritual questions to Nonni Dearest: NonniDeare811@sidekicks.ning.com
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